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Benton Cemetery
Saturday May 2nd, 2020
10:00am

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Tony Butler

Tony was laid to rest at 10:00 a.m., Saturday, May 2, 2020 in a private graveside service in the Benton Cemetery, Benton, Iowa, officiated by Pastor Bill Armstrong

Anthony Lynn Butler was born September 26, 1957 and died peacefully at his home in Benton, Iowa early Sunday morning, January 5, 2020 after a courageous battle with colon cancer.  His sister, Vickie, was with him.  He was 62.

Tony was the third child of Leland Merle and Dolores Jean (Herrington) Butler and was welcomed into the home by his brother James (Smokey) and sister Vickie.

Tony grew up in Benton and his fondest memories were spending time outdoors, at the Benton School grounds and walking the creek with cousins Stan and twins Joyce and Jeanie Butler of Benton and cousin Pam Herrington, who frequently visited from Marion.

Tony began his life-long passion of coon trapping by catching possums with Stan on Squirrel Creek. Tony trapped for over 50 seasons, resulting in over 200 aggregate years of trapping in the family.

Tony began school at age 4 in Mary Humbert’s Kindergarten class in Delphos.  He graduated from Mount Ayr High School with the Class of 1975 at age 17.  Tony always took his vacation from work the first two weeks of trapping season, and trapped with his Dad on the weekends.  Tony was Assistant Manager for Palm Clothing in Creston and lived there for several years until the store closed.  He then moved to Slater and did pest control for Diam until 2003, when his Mother moved to Mount Ayr Health Care.   Tony then sold his home in Slater and moved back to the family home in Benton so his Dad would not be alone.

He and his father continued their trapping partnership and gardened together from 2004 until Merle’s death in 2009.  Tony carried on his father’s tomato garden in the summers and continued trapping in the winter.

Tony made a decision on his 62nd birthday, September 26, 2019, to choose quality of life over quantity.  On September 28, 2019 Tony really enjoyed the Butler and Herrington Cousins Reunion held at the Benton Community Building.

Tony was an outdoorsman and liked to fish.  The past few years he particularly enjoyed his outings with Gene Dunkeson, Randy Ploeger, and with family at cousin Joyce’s pond near Melrose.

Tony was a sports enthusiast and guru.  He was a humorist and he loved to make people laugh.  Tony loved homemade noodles and his favorite noodle maker was Ava Marie England.  Tony had a very special relationship with Ava.  In October of 2018, Ava wrote a paper about Tony for a 5th Grade school assignment.

Tony was a writer and self-published his first book, Common Sense for the 21st Century in 2015.  Tony wrote by hand on legal pads and in spiral notebooks.  His life-long special friend, Jane Briley, transcribed Common Sense and handled the publishing.  Jane also transcribed Tony’s hieroglyphics into the first draft of Fun City, a modern day version of To Kill a Mockingbird.  Tony’s manuscript titled Trapping Trigonometry – Increasing Your Numbers was transcribed by his sister Vickie in September 2019.  This book will be published in 2020 and copies will be gifted to family, Pall Bearers, Honorary Pall Bearers and the Mount Ayr Public Library.  Tony had just started another book titled A Magnificent Life…Or This Whole Thing Could Have Been Avoided With Just a Trip to the Drug Store.

Tony had many friends including Pall Bearers Brent Lacina, Michael Emerson Avitt, Mike Edwards, Mike “Red” O’Hearn, Randy Ploeger and Doug Wilson.

Until the past few weeks of his life, Tony spoke daily with friend and former trapping partner Brent “Possum” Lacina.  Tony also enjoyed friend Mike Edwards of Jupiter, Florida from December 26-30, 2019. This was Mike’s fourth holiday visit since Tony’s diagnosis.  For the past 38 months, Tony always looked forward to his friends Mike Avitt and Jane Briley coming for their weekly visit.

Tony’s Honorary Pall Bearers include family members James Leland (Smokey) Butler, Jason James Butler, Chase James Butler, James (Toad) Tull, Blake James Butler, Jeremy Gillam, Gavin Gillam, Stan Butler, Randy Hogue, Jordan Jones and Quentin Gregg; and friends Gene Trullinger, Gene (Dunk) Dunkeson, Ted Wallace, Jimmy Miller, Thad Sickels, Junior Swank, Dick Graham, Bob Graham, Rob Graham, Robert Schlapia, Lonnie Horne and The Honorable Don Zollman, Mayor of the City of Benton.

Tony had a special relationship with his sister-in-law Rhonda Adams Cooper.  They enjoyed each other’s sense of humor and exchanged wacky gifts for their September birthdays.  When Tony was out on the trapline he always stopped in at Smokey and Rhonda’s to see if the bakery was open.  Rhonda spoiled him with monkey bread, leftovers and apple pie kits.

Tony always relied on his cousin Holly to have his back, and when he became ill, she helped him with errands and assisted in the home.  When Tony became a Home Hospice client in December, Holly was his Hospice Aide providing a few hours of personal care every day.

Tony was preceded in death by his grandparents, parents, aunts and uncles, cousins Monty Hartman, Connie Herrington, Hal Butler, Steve Butler, Pat Butler and Phil Butler, and trapper friend Gene Purdy.

Left to cherish his memory are his brother James (Smokey) and wife Rhonda and their children and grandchildren:  Jason and Melissa Butler and son Chase, Jennifer and James (Toad) Tull and son Blake Butler, Joni and Jeremy Gillam and their children Gavin and Haylee, Robert and Angie Adams and their children Hannah and Brady, and Evin and Charles Thomas and son Mason; his sister Vickie; his cousin Holly and husband Randy Hogue and their children Jordan Jones, Josie Jones and Ava Marie England; his aunts Mary Ann Herrington Hartman Matthews, Theresa Formaro Herrington and Mary Sheil Herrington; his uncle Darwin Hartman, and other loving relatives and friends.

Tony was a funny, warm, intelligent and compassionate friend to many people.  He accepted Jesus Christ as His savior many years ago.  He will be missed, but family and friends should find comfort in knowing Tony is with our Father in Heaven.

In lieu of flowers, memorials are to the family to be decided later.


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We are sorry to learn of Tony's death. We look forward to seeing him alive again in the resurrection. Jesus promised, "Do not be amazed at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out to a resurrection." John 5:28, 29

Jim & Donna Adams May 6 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Tony Butler

Tom Fowler Jan 17 2020 12:00 AM

I met tony when he was working at palm clothing in creston iowa from there I met James (smokey) bulter had graduated a few years ahead of me in high school and the both of us joined the military for while I came home and met tony and smokey and steve Caldwell then got aquainted with the twins Joyce and Jeanie and holly from time to time I would run in to tony in creston or the twins in mt ayr but as time goes by rairly tony or the girls (my very sincere loss to the family for losing tony very sorry for your loss

charles e ford Jan 10 2020 12:00 AM

Smoke and Vickie, It is with a heavy heart that I wish you sincere condolences for your loss and it is with great rejoicing that Tony is done with fighting cancer and with God in Heaven. Tony encouraged me when my trapline wasn't producing like I thought it should and complimented my son with his success on his trapline. I can't begin to tell you how much I appreciated his telephone conversations about trapping, the buckets of bait, advice, encouragementand everything else we talked about.He will be missed.
Tony, my prayer for you in Heaven is for allyour traps to be fullwith 5x coon and big buck mink and the S10 to be so loaded that there is no more spring travel left when you pull into the fur shed. You were one of the greats and will be missed. God bless you. Rest in peace my friend.

Thad and Gavin Sickels Jan 10 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Tony Butler

Rick and Barb (Kennedy) Supinger Jan 8 2020 12:00 AM

We send our sincere sympathy to Vickie and Jim. Benton wont be the same without Tony and he will indeed be missed.
Your family and friends are in our thoughts.
Rita (Barker) & Larry Hunter

Rita (Barker) & Larry Hunter Jan 7 2020 12:00 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. Saying prayers for your family.

Linda Wallace Madison Jan 7 2020 12:00 AM

Vickie & Smokey,

I am sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and I hope you can find comfort in your family and friends. There's one thing I know; the only thing better than IOWA grown tomatoes are TONY'S IOWA grown tomatoes. We will miss him and his tomatoes.

With Love,
Justin Adams

justin adams Jan 7 2020 12:00 AM

So sorry for your loss. Tony was a great guy and I always enjoyed visiting with him.
Prayers to your family!

Bobby Haley & Family Jan 6 2020 12:00 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Tony Butler

Bobby Haley & Family Jan 6 2020 12:00 AM

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